Must Love Traif

The diary of one girl's attempt to find a Jewish man who loves bacon as much as she does.

Men don't have a monopoly on bad behavior



After reading all these blogs regarding the poor messaging etiquette of men, I expected nothing but perfect behavior from women — I mean glass house and stones, pot and kettle, etc. — but this is not the case. I have found that less than 5% of the women who message me have taken the time to even…

First of all, I’m sorry that you have unrealistic expectations of women being “perfect”. And you’re an asshole for thinking that in the first place. We have never stated that we were perfect, especially on dating sites. Secondly, I’m annoyed that you said you find women “boring” on dating websites and have apparently discovered a bullshit defense for men and their innapropriate behavior -because they’re at least humorous… ? If you feel left out because there aren’t any tumblr blogs about women behaving badly on dating sites, then I don’t know what to tell you. On behalf of all women, I would like to say that none of us give a shit about a man feeling left out, especially when it comes to the sexism and perversion that women face when trying to date. Women are not lazy, we just refuse to make asses out of ourselves for the attention of a man. -which the same can’t be said for you and your male counterparts. Good for you for finding some women who are interested in you. There really are such things as miracles. okcreepsters feministcaptainkirk okcupidbullshit okcupidfailzzz okcdouchebags onlinedatingshenanigans 2girlsandpof mustlovetraif

Couldn’t have said it better.

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What’s the Catch?

Had a great date with a new guy. Having brunch with him tomorrow. He told me I was distractingly beautiful and didn’t even make a move. There’s got to be something wring with him.


On a date.

Back in the Saddle

I have two dates this weekend. I’m tired just thinking about them. Note to self: try to not have resting bitch face.

Good Pain

I did bootcamp yesterday and am walking funny today (I wish it was for a different reason, but que sera). I’m so out of shape. I guess copious amounts of wine and reality tv marathons will do that to you. I’m going back for more pain next week, though. I have a lot of time on my hands these days, so I might as well work out. Also, I need to combat the wine and tv.

Hostess with the Mostest


I’m going to start going to therapy. I feel like I’m sinking and I need help keeping my head above water. I can’t do it on my own.

Speed Hating

I just bought a ticket for speed-dating on Groupon. I must really hate myself. Last time I went there were 20 women and 6 men. Also, the drinks aren’t free. At least it was half price. Hopefully, I’ll get a good story out of it. I doubt I’ll get anything else.

They should do a study about alcoholism and online dating. I think they’ll find a link.

They should do a study about alcoholism and online dating. I think they’ll find a link.

Here I Go Again

I’m having one of those days where I wish I was someone else. Actually, that’s most of my days.